This past week we got to talking about communication when Lisa posted the article, "Communication: How to Love Him More Than Words Can Say." When she reminded us that we communicate love in a number of ways other than speech, I started to put a few of her ideas into practice.
Immediately I sensed a warm reception, and I could tell that Michael was reading my signals. I was communicating my love to him and he was getting the message loud and clear. What did I do? Well... I wasn't going to kiss and tell, but since it's just between you and I, why not? *wink*
The first thing I did was admire him with my eyes when he walked in the door. I gave him a hug and mentioned how great he smelled. Let me tell you--that man smells awesome!! The second thing I did was that I leaned over the back of the couch after dinner, kissed him on the neck and whispered something sweet in his ear. That's where I started and it went on from there.
This morning, when my husband got up for work (he gets up earlier than any of us) he walked over to my side of the bed, bent over, and whispered in my ear, "You're my best friend. The best I've ever had."
Isn't that about the sweetest thing you've ever heard? I thought so!
And so I've decided to put together a list called 30 Ways to Love Your Husband. It's actually more like 30 ways to show your husband you love him, but I didn't get too wordy--you get the idea.
Of course all husbands are different and each one speaks their own love language, but perhaps this list will spark a few ideas in you. There are 30 of them so if you're inclined to, you might want to challenge yourself by trying a new one each day.
- Give him direct eye contact when you're talking to him and say something encouraging. As Lisa put it, "admire him with your eyes." Love that!
- Stop to hug him when you pass by his way.
- Ask him if there's any thing he'd like you to pray for.
- Wear an outfit that he likes on you.
- Reach for his hand when you're driving or walking.
- Ask him if he'd like anything when you make a trip to the kitchen.
- Pick him up a little treat at the store.
- Organize his space. This could be anything from his office desk to his sock drawer. Show him you've been there and you're loving on him.
- Make his favorite meal or dessert.
- Leave a little note someplace creative like lipstick on the mirror in your bathroom or a coupon under the windshield of his car.
- Offer to do something that you know he enjoys doing.
- Send him a romantic email or text.
- Offer him a word of encouragement by saying something positive.
- Say something positive about him to others when you're together.
- Listen to him when he's stressed. You might not have a solution, but listening goes a long way.
- Thank him for being supportive.
- Encourage him by taking an interest in his hobbies.
- Comment on some of the good decisions he's made.
- Let him know that you respect and admire his leadership.
- What makes him unique? Point it out to him! That's so much better than comparison.
- Hold back on the nagging. Bite your lip if you must, and communicate your thoughts with patience.
- Take time to greet him when he arrives and see him off when he leaves.
- Is there a tool or an electronic he's been wanting to buy? If it's within reason, sit down and work it into your budget.
- Surprise him by doing one of his regular chores before he gets a chance like shoveling the walk or mowing the lawn.
- Be happy. More than anything else your attitude will go a long way in setting his.
- Cut arguments short by letting go of your need to be right. Wait until you both cool down and communicate your thoughts with patience and kindness--another day.
- Ralax and let yourself laugh. Have fun with him.
- Write a love message on the toilet paper roll with sharpie. No doubt it will make him smile.
- Hold his hand when you fall asleep.
- When he's lying in bed or on the couch, bend over and whisper in his ear, "You're the best friend I've ever had."
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So many of these I have done since our marriage began, and others I've picked up along the way. Thanks so much for taking the time to care for our marriages :) I appreciate you so much!
ReplyDeleteI'd like to ask about the toilet paper tube: does it mean that we should unroll the toilet paper to write on the inner tube?
One thing I do for hubby is to keep one of his favorite drinks in the fridge. He loves my tea so I like to make sure there's always some in there for him; and I get him some when he gets home from work.
Even though I'm a 55 year old, who's had zero luck in finding a spouse, and one who rolled their eyes and raised an eyebrow or two when reading this, I had to stop and think... Gesh, that's exactly what we need to do for one another... whether it's a spouse or a friend, we need to show our affections, encourage one another, put others before ourselves, and I sincerely believe that it will come back, creating stronger relationships and memorable experiences lasting a lifetime.
ReplyDeleteAs I'm writing them, I'm kind of wondering how many people might roll their eyeballs. Love sounds cheesy sometimes, huh? LOL
DeleteBut you're right, we need to show affection and encourage one another. Thanks for your wisdom!
I loved your comment: ...I had to stop and think... That's where real wisdom comes through. Awesome!
DeleteWe also have to be willing to be cheesy sometimes for the ones we love. (spouse or otherwise)
Wonderful ideas. I would just caution about #8. Make sure he would really appreciate that. I know my husband wouldn't (ask me how I learned in 20 years of marriage :)). We all have different styles and way we organize things - if yours is different from your husbands, it might upset him more than please.
ReplyDeleteGood point! During the first 5 years of our marriage my husband would not let me touch his laundry. Our mother in law came to stay with us once and she washed his jeans. All I heard that night was about how they were shrunk. I don't think they were, I just think he was very particular about that are of his life. Like you say, "They all have different styles."
DeleteWonderful, wonderful post Darlene! Scripture tells us to RESPECT our husbands. We are to be submissive to their spiritual leadership and authority, not doormats, but being willing, obedient servants of Jesus Christ should be our desire as we joyfully serve our husbands, Christian or not. Women are just now beginning to hear hands-on ways to do this. Thank you again for the applicable ways to serve and respect our husbands. It does wonders for our marriages!
ReplyDeleteAlways Experiencing Him,
Jody
I'm going to make it goal to work through this list. I'm not always an encouraging loving wife but i want to be.
ReplyDeleteI love the one about letting go of our need to be right. That is huge, isn't it? Being right is not going to be fun when you're the only one around to enjoy it.
ReplyDeleteAlso love the toilet paper and sharpie idea. That is too cute, lol!
His feelings are more important than my pride. I always try to remember this. I can be quite stubborn
DeleteSo enjoyed this post; you are right on. I use almost all these ideas already and my husband says I'm his best friend. What a compliment. And, he does things for me too. I let him know how important he is to me. It works.
ReplyDeleteAs a new wife of about 7 months I enjoyed reading this post for a few reasons. One, I was encouraged to see several things that are already happening in our marriage regarding how I show affection/respect for my husband. Two, I appreciate the fact that you point out to remember that not all of these work for every man because there were a few that I thought - my husband would hate that, SMILE (specifically the hand holding, ha). Lastly, it gave me some more ideas! Thanks for sharing!! Blessings
ReplyDeleteI am so excited everytime I see one of your postings - I am preparing to become a wife (getting married in March 2013) and am so thankful for every bit of advice and counsel I can get!
ReplyDeleteI've been married for almost 12 years now. I know that doesn't make me an expert by any means, but I wanted to say something about this.
ReplyDeleteThese are all beautiful ideas, but they do not work on everyone. Not at all. It depends greatly on your spouse and their personality. If you're married to Prince Charming (lucky you), I could see how he may notice at least one of these actions. I hate to be cynical, because in my heart that's not who I really am. I am in no way disrespecting this post, because I love your blog, Darlene. I read it all the time, and I think you are a lovely person, based on your written words alone. But I have read the books. I have watched the DVD's. I have listened to the tapes and CD's, even done the homework assignments. I have looked at lists like these for 12 years. And although my husband is a God-fearing man who provides for his family and tells me he loves me daily... it just doesn't work. Not on him.
Nothing has changed. I have prayed and prayed, "God, change ME." I'm a good wife. I do everything I know to do and ask for direction on the things I don't know. Am I perfect? By no means. But he breaks my heart in some way nearly every single day. Am I a big baby? No. Do I expect too much? I seriously believe I don't. I'd give almost anything to feel special in his eyes. For him to know he is special in mine. But the simple truth is this... I am invisible, the last on a long list of priorities, and my marriage is a desert.
He is totally outside the box in any book I've read on how the majority of men are supposed to be/think. I can't and won't go into detail. I've said too much already. But reading this today made me shake my head and want to cry. It doesn't matter what I do, no matter how simple or small, creative or complicated. I can't get through to him.
I wish I could find a book or blog post somewhere about a husband who is "outside the box". What can we do? I know there have to be other wives out there like me.
There is a fabulous book called "What's It Like To Be Married To Me" that I highly recommend. It is a Christian book about marriage and it is for all types of marriages. It was really eye opening for me and really shifted my perspectives and prioritites after 16 years of marriage.
DeleteI was deeply saddened by your post. I'm so sorry for the grief and loneliness it seems you are experiencing every day.
DeleteMy first marriage that ended in divorce was so filled with sadness that I had to stop attending church because I would just sit there and cry during the entire service. I didn't blame God for my choices or my husband, or my actions, but I was just so filled with despair that sitting in the presence of God meant that I couldn't hide it - so I stayed away from Him. It's been years since then and much of the sadness is gone, but when I think upon that time I remember vividly. I put off divorce for far too long out of my sense of obligation - but in retrospect, I'm so very happy that he finally filed for that divorce.
My current husband is awesome and a perfect fit for me (neither of us are perfect, but we just work beautifully together even during times of real stress.) I want you to know that there is hope, there is forgiveness, there is LOVE for you. I hope you don't have to go through divorce to find it, but if you do someday I want you to really KNOW that there is light on the other side. God Bless
I'm so sorry you have to feel that way. Because I understand completely. I felt like you were writing about me! Hang in there the best you can. And know you are not alone!
DeleteThe minute that we take our eyes off of the Lord we face disappointment time and again. All of mankind, including my husband is a sinner saved only by grace. But when everything that we do is done for the glory of God we look past the person to seek approval from God and He alone.
DeleteConsider the verse, "love your enemies, do good to those who hate you." It's easy to love on those who show appreciation and shower you with compliments, but the challenge lies in loving the unloved. That's where our lives become a sacrifice of service to God.
And finally let us never lose hope of this truth:
The king's heart is in the hand of the LORD, as the rivers of water: he turneth it whithersoever he will. ~ Proverbs 21:1.
If God can turn the heart of a king, He can certainly turn the heart of a husband. Leave his heart in the hands of the Lord.
I have been married almost 24 years & after the awful fighting between my husband & I recently, finally realized that his idea of love is far different from mine. My husband claims to be a Christian but doesn't believe the Bible can be useful or true in today's society. He turned his back on God when he lost his sight in his right eye in May 1999 & eventually had to have it removed when surgery didn't help to save the left eye. We had 3 kids under age 5 & I was a stay at home mom. My marriage changed from being a happy one to one where we were always walking on egg shells. We separated & almost got divorced as couple of years later only to decide to try again. Now we are grandparents & nothing either of us does gets easier. My husband accused me of not "loving " him enough in the way he loved me. I'm realizing that men can be just as stubborn & opinionated as a woman, but when you are unequally yoked you always have to wonder is this what marriage is all about? I just want to be heard & not always "fixed". I have seen God work in my marriage & family, but getting him to see it is not easy. He refuses to accept that God us in control in all things & that we are in control of our destiny & things that happen in this life. I know the truth but I can't share it or explain it to him when he doesn't want to believe in it also.
DeleteI absolutely love this list! I have been married to my wonderful husband for 8 years now and I notice a difference in my husband when I take the time to let him know how I really feel about him. And not just by saying "I love you". I have to confess there are times where I seem to forget how much support my husband needs and how weighed down he can get by the responsibilities placed on him or by the world in general. One thing that speaks volumes to my husband is to send him encouraging texts throughout his workday. (notes in the lunchbox work to) to let him know that I am praying for him, that I appreciate him and all of his hard work, and that I cannot wait to see him at the end of the day. When he is constantly being shown that I value him, appreciate his efforts and that no matter what happens I "have his back", there is such a difference in him and in our marriage. Thank you again for the reminder and encouragement!
ReplyDeletesome of these sound like sweet things to do and i've done them throughout my twelve years of marriage but some seem a little ridiculous. and, out of curiousity, while you're doing absolutely everything for this man, what does he do for you? please don't say making money because you can do that for yourself.
ReplyDeleteIt's not about what is he doing for you. When you love someone you don't do things to get something in return--that's not really love. Giving to someone else without conditions can, in itself, be the greatest gift you give yourself.
DeletePhilippians 2:3 says that we should count others more significant than we do ourselves, so with that in mind I don't do this because my husband has done something for me or supports me financially. To me love is a gift that you give without expectation.
DeleteIf you read the "about me" section above you'll see that my husband has given me more than I could ever possibly repay. He gave me grace which is undeserved favor. That's how love should be, and that's the kind of love that changed my life.
I am speechless at this list. I can not believe in the day and age we live in that women are still "serving" men? The street in my eyes always goes both ways. This to me sound totally submissive and one way. You are right its not what has he done for me lately but would he do the same for me? Very different!
DeleteIf I write an article on wives joyfully serving our families someone will leave a reminder in the comments that this must go both ways. On the flip side, if I mention the important role of a husband (to love his wife as Christ loved the church and gave himself for it) I'll get the same thing.
DeleteI can't help but feel that we're placing love on a scale. We're more concerned that it might tip one way or the other than we are about loving in the best way we know how.
Jesus tipped the scales big time. While we were yet sinners--lying, stealing, cheating, self-centered sinners--He gave up His life. He took the weight of our sin upon Himself and died in the most horrific way that we might have life.
For scarcely for a righteous man will one die: yet peradventure for a good man some would even dare to die. But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.~ Romans 5:7-8
We've been married 33 years and although I do about 16 of these, as a man for my wife, she only does 1 out of the 30. So to the lady woman who talked about a 2 way street - I don't see it applies to our marriage, it is a one way not "level"
DeleteGiving and not receiving is okay for a while. If you see that you never receive then you should reconsider the relationship. This should happen before marriage as marriage should be with the right partner for a lifetime.
DeleteI love the intent of these, to be kind, considerate, thoughtful and actually DO and SAY things each day that convey how much you love, appreciate, respect, and admire your husband. Some of the specifics won't work for my husband, but doing something that will work is my goal everyday. (#25 is the most important to my guy.)
ReplyDeletelove the ideas i do most of them already but some i dont do! its never relly about the big things in life but the small things!! men can be so complicated in what they want and after so many years of knowing someone you still learn new things everyday!! one thing i do for my husband is not curse his mother never did while growing up so he asked me not to yes it slips every now and then and friends make fun and try to get me to say things but i dont bc i respect my husbands wishes and if he asks me not to i wont! sometime i feel i dont appreciate him as much as i thought i was so ive been trying to change that i tell him how great he is as a husband and thankful i am for our life and how hard working he is i even make is day a lil easier by giving him a neck or back massage men love those so women maybe you can show him that way specially if hes a hard working man!! we just got married in april so everyone says bc were in the "honeymoon" phase of our lives were gonna be in love but i love him more everyday and eventhough we just got married weve been together for over 8 years! hes an amazing man and the best husband i can ask for and when the time is right hes gonna make a great daddy! good luck to all the wives out there who have stressful husbands just be patient!!
ReplyDeleteI am a woman who doesn't do as many of these things on this list as I should, but I do a lot more than I used to! In Spring of last year (2012) I filed for separation from my husband, citing, among other things, emotional abuse. I was being selfish, not loving him the way God commands, and when he responded to that lack of love in a negative way, I "yelled" abuse! and filed for separation. After several months of counseling, "dating" my husband, and reading an incredible book about being a helpmeet (sorry Darlene, not your book! :), I am more in love with my husband now, than I think I ever was! God is SO amazing! Thank you for this list, as it is a big help for wives like me, who feel alone, unloved, emotionally abused.... after doing things on this list and some others too, I've seen my husband respond in such an encouraging, positive way, and it just makes me want to love him more! :)
ReplyDeleteThat's so awesome!! I'm guessing, "Created to Be His Helpmeet?" So many readers like that!
DeleteAs I read your list, I realized that my husband does a lot of these things to me and sometimes I just see it as "what he does." Seeing this list made me see it differently. Seeing it as his way of showing me love, and I haven't seen it that way!!! What if he has been looking at lists like this on his own and I haven't been as responsive as he'd hoped? Today is a NEW DAY in our house! Thank you :)
ReplyDeleteYeah, so many times they are loving us in their own way and we miss it.
DeleteTonya I was thinking the same thing as I read the list. It is a new day. Can't wait to try some of these things myself.
DeleteThis is the first time I have read your blog - I found you from a post on Pinterest. I have many thoughts after reading this blog post - but the first one is that I think this list should be written for a man to do for his wife. Sure, these "to do" items are nice, but these are not likely the way most men "feel love" or feel respected and admired.
ReplyDeleteWith all due respect, Darlene, I think you are leading women down a rosy path, thinking that men will "feel love" by doing the items on your list. I am not saying they won't appreciate these things (if your husband is the kind to even notice these subtleties). But most men need very direct signs and indications of love.
For example:
TELL him "I admire and respect you for ___________________" and it has to be sincere and true. Admire and respect are powerful words for a man to hear - and he cannot hear them enough from the woman he provides for and protects with all his might.
When watching TV, whisper in his ear, yes, but to tell him he is the best friend you've ever had? I think men would rather hear that he is the best lover you can ever imagine, and better yet, "I can't wait to be alone with you tonight in bed." (this IS your husband after all -- be as direct as you are comfortable. It would mean everything in the world for him to hear this!
Hold his hand while you fall asleep? Really? A woman wants this. A man wants his wife to be snuggled up next to him with as few clothes on as possible -- that's how he "feels love" and feels wanted.
Encourage him by taking on his hobbies? Again - I would like to say -- Encourage him to explore his hobbies! To go experience adventure! To go be with the guys and do guy stuff and you will reconnect with him at the end of the day to hear all about it! What could be more fun for a man than this? Men are hard-wired for adventure -- our society is trying to turn our men into BFFs for women. Stop that. Encourage your man to be a man!
Well, I could go on, but I won't. I think you get the point.
LOVE on your man. And BE HAPPY. That's what he really wants. The rest? It's all just details.
Those are some good ideas :). Thank you!
ReplyDeleteThese are good ideas and since day 1 before I read your blog I have been doing little things for my husband and he has been doing little things for me. We have only been married for 2 years now and have been through so much in those 2 years, but we make it a point to tell each other everyday "thank you for being you' it's that little thing that makes us both smile because we know that no matter what we don't have to change who we are for each other. I know it's not all going to be good in the years to come but I am glad to spend it with my other half. I will definitely try some of your other suggestions though. Thanks for this post.
ReplyDeletei really like it.thank you so much for that ideas i will try to my husband if it works for sure it will reallt its is..thank you and more power
ReplyDeleteI think these are awesome! Ive always wondered though, why I don't see more "How to Love Your Wife" lists. Do men really feel that unloved? I know I do sometimes. I feel like he would rather see a hardees commercial than even pay any attention to me. Such is life I guess. I have always tried really hard to hold my tounge more than I let it loose; seems like I cant have any opinion or thought on anything unless it is to agree with his. I guess I'm just sounding selfish though. I shouldnt think these kinds of things right?
ReplyDeleteMs. Darlene, love this article! How very important the relationship between husband and wife. I have often said that sometimes I get so busy being mommy that I forget to be wife. Thank you for this precious reminder!
ReplyDeleteI posted your link in my own blog - www.laundrytolollipops.blogspot.com
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ReplyDeleteDarlene,
ReplyDeleteThis is the first time I've been on your blog and am unfamiliar with your writing until today. I just wanted to express my appreciation for your answers above. Your use of Scripture to answer instead of giving luke-warm answers based on worldly standards is very refreshing. Praise God for the lives you are touching for Him! -Brenda
Brenda, I'm glad that you landed here! Thank you for bringing encouragement to my faith.
DeleteWow is all i can say. After reading everything i just once again realise how truly blessed i am. My husband is a gift from God. He knew excactly who would be a perfect fit for me. During the past 20 years we have been through so much. The good the bad the ugly and yes what felt like the fires of hell at one point. But i would not change a single thing because it made us who we are today. He is the king of my castle, the lion that roars the gentle lamb the hillariously funny clown most amazing lover best friend ever my knight in shining armour . I love the way he loves me..i could never understand it..i have so many faults and shortcomings but no matter what i say or do he still loves me. Its mindblowing. Our recipe? Never stop talking never stop listening never stop touching loving never stop laughing never ever give up and never let go of your Heavenly Fathers hand because when youre too tired to push through He will pick you up and carry you till youre ready to walk again.
ReplyDeleteThere was a time when i was too tired and somewhat angry because He wouldnt take away the pain and make everything okay...but man am i glad He didnt because it moulded us into who we are right now ...and im loving who we are . And unless you know what im talking about its really hard to explain just how loved and cherished and adored i feel everyday of my life. I will never be able to thank my heavenly Father enough ..i am truly blessed.
I feel that when the love is right and you find the person that you know God stitched together just for you, these simple things become natural.
ReplyDeleteI have been married and divorced once before and I never felt that relationship was God’s will. I am now engaged to marry the man I know God planned on me spending my life with. It is so natural for me to have the urge to serve my future husband.
I do like to randomly tell him how honored I am to be with such a great man. I know he likes to hear it and I believe the word ‘honor’ is powerful in and of itself. I also like to let him know how respected he is. He is my best friend and I never truly knew this love existed.
Our Lord is incredible and I become very overwhelmed with love when I think about how he brought my fiancé from across the country just so we could meet!
Thank you for taking the time to write something that makes me want to reflect on my own relationship.
Love your blog . Need help. Been married for 14yrs . I Love my husband but I find it so difficult to show it. Like hold hands, etc. even to say - i love you. I don't know why. pls need some advise on what to do. Not a counselor together because he feels i am just cold but within myself or mind i do want to do all these things but don't know how to start.
ReplyDeleteIf I were you I would go to a counselor for some help. That is the best place to start. Just go by yourself. It sounds to me as if you may have fear of letting your feelings show because maybe you have been hurt in the past. Maybe your words were rejected or silenced. I'm sure you are not a cold person. Some people for some reasons have a hard time expressing their love.
DeleteI love this post and made me want to browse more.
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing these brilliant ways to show my love to my husband.More power!
Cheers,
Marie
love messages for husband
Thank you for this article... :)
ReplyDeleteI'm getting married on November....
I got many new ideas to love my husband..
Thank you once again!!
Just wanted to let you know how much I love this list. I am only 18 and still a long while from getting married, but I have seen the difference in my parents and siblings (I have 7) marriages with the ones that make sure the other knows they are still in love with them vs those that have just gotten in the comfortable routine they have fallen into over the years. Be cheesy. Be friends. Act like your still dating. Even tho you are married, still try and "get" them. I want to always keep my love alive and well. Remind him why he fell in live with you.
ReplyDeleteI have done all of this over the last ten years daily, he still wants to leave me anybody have any advice!?
ReplyDeletesweet posting of latest love sms for him
ReplyDeleteReally like your post, and an really trying very hard to convince myself to try more harder on what I don't do from your list, I love my husband a lot we've being married for 2 and a half years now but believe u me I try all I could for my husband, when we first married we don't stay together since he based abroad but after a year I moved with him and since we start living together is like am now living with a stranger, he beat me on every little thing course me every now and den hardly appreciate what I do except complain all d tym most of d tym if I try to explain myself he throw things at me or punch me hard I fry every now and den, but despite all dis I really love him and keep praying for him to change, I knw he has lots of girl friend he usually tell me he will Marry another wife in fact Dats a song I hear most of d tym but every time he beat or abuse me once we've settled I forget everything cos I really love him but what I get in response is am a pretender dat I only lie dat I love him which I don't and mind u my husband never tell me for once dat he love me or comment on anything of me all I use to hear is condemnation, am a university graduate but not working presently believe me my friend my husband find it difficult to be giving me pocket money to buy things for myself, I can't even boast of money to buy myself a common earrings in my bank account and he lavish money for friends and girl friends which I use to see but still won't talk cos I knw and still praying for him to change, lots and lots dat I can't even talk on, if am ill my husband will ask me to go and make him food he won't do it on his own and if anything is wrong I get beating so tell me how do I do all dis ur list when d person am doing it for never appreciate it, just can't really go on, just let me hear ur view
ReplyDeletePlease speak to someone today who can help you. Focus on the Family has a help line you can call. Here's their website:
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Nice advices i just read the same from a book.
ReplyDeletei love my husband so much. he also loves me. he is a good life partner there is no words to say more than this. gayugopi
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This one is such a tricky one..for I think it will surely hurt a person knowing the person you really love is not anymore actually in love with you. But thanks to this article, for it gives the reasons of why this could happen any relationship to any couples out there. This will serve a guide on how to save a relationship especially for a very young couple, when they come to read this it will give them a hint on how possibly it could happen and give them a precaution and give them a chance to save their relationship.
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