Since we're the first thing they see, it’s important to consider how we are presenting ourselves to them.
A good friend once told me that she’s made it a personal goal of hers to greet her children in the morning with a smile on her face. She believes that the attitude that she starts the day off with has a great impact on her family. When she gave me this advice, I started to ask myself what my children were seeing first thing in the morning. Let me tell you, it wasn’t a pretty sight! So I took those words of wisdom to heart by applying them to my morning routine.
What boy wouldn’t like being greeted by a warm voice calling out, “Good morning sweetie!” along with a reminder of the good things the day holds for his life? They all would. What girl wouldn’t love to lift a lid only to find breakfast being served to her in bed by Mom and her brothers? I can’t think of one.
Just yesterday my daughter woke me up with a cup of tea and some danish cinnamon cookies. We all love that kind of reception in the morning, don't we? As a matter of fact we like it 24/7.
Terry Maxwell, author of Homeschooling with a Meek and Quiet Spirit wrote, “I am the one holding the keys to the atmosphere in our home.” That’s a powerful statement, and one I believe to be true.
Consider Christ the foundational groundwork in your home, and build upon that foundation with a gentle, and humble heart that draws your family near.
It’s often said; “When Momma’s happy, the family is happy,” so let that happiness pour out as a gift to God, to yourself, and to your family.
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This is the day which the LORD hath made;
we will rejoice and be glad in it.
~ Psalm 118:24![](https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh1y4WN8kFT0Ys4TCuJLPWgl4Yl-vNEAD02JvDxk_UNRS7f8z7bpSSeM5Z21XCHM2hAHA99pqz5mmKnnIHALf5FfTup9qy07PHscir2IXK7UIrI3nUC0wT3DXGq_2s7hXkm1zJl7eAwpqs/s1600/ScriptTop.png)
If you don’t feel that you have joy--then pray. Joy is a fruit of the Spirit, meaning that when the Spirit of God is living and moving in your life, that joy will naturally flow.
I'm not offering a Pollyanna attitude to women with clinical depression as I have seen the effects of that first hand in my family, but rather I speak to those women who see the world through the murky haze of a glass half empty. If you haven’t given your attitude over to God then you’re missing out on one of the greatest gifts that God offers in your Christian walk--joy.
A good friend once told me that she’s made it a personal goal of hers to greet her children in the morning with a smile on her face. She believes that the attitude that she starts the day off with has a great impact on her family. When she gave me this advice, I started to ask myself what my children were seeing first thing in the morning. Let me tell you, it wasn’t a pretty sight! So I took those words of wisdom to heart by applying them to my morning routine.
What boy wouldn’t like being greeted by a warm voice calling out, “Good morning sweetie!” along with a reminder of the good things the day holds for his life? They all would. What girl wouldn’t love to lift a lid only to find breakfast being served to her in bed by Mom and her brothers? I can’t think of one.
Just yesterday my daughter woke me up with a cup of tea and some danish cinnamon cookies. We all love that kind of reception in the morning, don't we? As a matter of fact we like it 24/7.
Terry Maxwell, author of Homeschooling with a Meek and Quiet Spirit wrote, “I am the one holding the keys to the atmosphere in our home.” That’s a powerful statement, and one I believe to be true.
Consider Christ the foundational groundwork in your home, and build upon that foundation with a gentle, and humble heart that draws your family near.
It’s often said; “When Momma’s happy, the family is happy,” so let that happiness pour out as a gift to God, to yourself, and to your family.
![](https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhiUANrcZ9slC9D__mcdrMqNhsl5rb9bq0FO8XKGc_TP5qFQcvYVOaDjASgfu62D7FfyEaiN9MYqrxTQlDPk6VfS9WCI9KbXkwhj520pCLm5o2fSfND53ejX_GxDK057vayDtoB5Fa4PxM/s1600/ScriptBottom.png)
This is the day which the LORD hath made;
we will rejoice and be glad in it.
~ Psalm 118:24
![](https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh1y4WN8kFT0Ys4TCuJLPWgl4Yl-vNEAD02JvDxk_UNRS7f8z7bpSSeM5Z21XCHM2hAHA99pqz5mmKnnIHALf5FfTup9qy07PHscir2IXK7UIrI3nUC0wT3DXGq_2s7hXkm1zJl7eAwpqs/s1600/ScriptTop.png)
If you don’t feel that you have joy--then pray. Joy is a fruit of the Spirit, meaning that when the Spirit of God is living and moving in your life, that joy will naturally flow.
I'm not offering a Pollyanna attitude to women with clinical depression as I have seen the effects of that first hand in my family, but rather I speak to those women who see the world through the murky haze of a glass half empty. If you haven’t given your attitude over to God then you’re missing out on one of the greatest gifts that God offers in your Christian walk--joy.
And upon that joy--add virtue. Allow Him to use you in every way, including the way you choose you attitude.
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Therefore, as God’s chosen people,
holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves
with compassion, kindness, humility,
gentleness and patience.
~ Colossians 3:12, NIV
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You are loved by an almighty God,
Darlene
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